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Friends, Long
Live the Parsis! "Dying?
Who's dying?" he asked, outraged. "I'm not. And I have extensions of myself -
two sons and one daughter. So have you. Dying? What are you talking about?" "But
Fali, we are dying", I tried to explain. "Read this article: The death rates are
higher than birth rates. What can you say to that?" "Arrrrey!
The way these Hindus and Muslims go at each other's throats, they will wipe themselves
out before we are ever wiped out", he chuckled. Fali belongs to the old, 'never-say-die'
brigade. There was no way I could convince him about the gravity of the situation.
"The whole world worries about us; most of our customs and rituals are being documented
for preservation." I pressed on. "What
preservation? Fali growled. "I am here, jivto jagto! Are you scared, or what,
by what these idiots are saying? Heh, heh, heh", he chortled. "Nothing can wipe
us out!" Fali put the thing in perfect perspective. "I
don't believe these rubbishy statistics. If the Lord intended us to die out, our
little boat would have been gulped down by the ocean when we fled Iran. But He
did not. We were just a HANDFUL that landed here on the sands of Sanjan and see
how many we are today. More than a lakh all over the world." (this is the most
important I think we should work on this paragraph, how did we multiply when we
were only a few) He
wanted us to do something and look what we have produced : gems .......a JRD,
a Palkhivala, a Fali Nariman, a Manekshaw, a Pirojshaw Godrej, not to talk of
the Udvadias, the Sunawalas, the Godiwallas and, of course, Zubin. We have brains
and business acumen. And
'Quality'. We don't produce children by the dozen, but what we leave behind is
quality stuff. It is nature's law that good things are rare, like us. We have
always been a minuscule community. Now if you want to sit and cry, cry! But I
don't think we are doomed. If they want to document us, let them! We have yet
much to do and much to give! I
watched him, bedazzled, as he put on his bushcoat to leave and planted a Parsi
kiss on cheek. I raised a hand in quiet salutation and felt proud of the blood
that flowed through my veins. He was like a breath of fresh air in an overcrowded
room. I sat transfixed for a while. His attitude was convincing and contagious. Probably
it is this attitude that has kept us going. Numbers don't count. It is all a matter
of attitude! This
was sent to me by a friend please pass it on to all Parsis. Life
is too short for drama and petty things, so kiss slowly, laugh insanely, Love
truly and forgive quickly. |